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Wednesday, April 22, 2015
Thursday, April 16, 2015
There are all these quotes and motivational sayings that are supposed to keep us going on a daily basis. But sometimes you just need a break from all of it. This was me last Friday. I had the day off
from work and planned to do plenty of writing. But when I woke up that morning, not only was I unmotivated, I was tired. Not physically, but tired of working on the project that has consumed my life since February. And the more and more I thought about how important it was to work on said project, I started to feel very anxious. And that led to me wanting to give up altogether. But I saw that for what it was and realized a break was necessary.
Tuesday, April 14, 2015
Gentrification: The buying and renovating of houses and stores in deteriorated
urban neighborhoods by upper- or middle- income families or
individuals, thus improving property values but often displacing
low-income families and small businesses.
The above picture: 103rd street and Lexington in NYC. Luxury apartments that cost a grip (I know, I visited their website) sit in between buildings that are probably older than me.
This issue of gentrification is something I never knew much about until I moved to NYC. In California I am sure there are places that are or have experienced gentrification, but I've never lived in or near them. Everywhere I've lived has been new... so I never understood why people wouldn't want big stores and one-stop shops because that's all I've ever known.
But after hearing writer Vanessa Martir read her piece, This is Not My Brooklyn, I'm finally starting to understand.
Friday, April 10, 2015
When I moved to NYC I had this grand idea of my freelance writing and editing career immediately taking off. I pictured myself living this luxurious life, where I trotted around town writing at these cool little coffee shops and getting published and featured in all the top magazines I enjoy reading. I also imagined I would have this huge following who waited at bated breath for my next piece, so they could be inspired by it and share it with all their friends.
However, after my first year of freelancing none of the above was happening. I mean, I did have a roof over my head, I wrote whenever and wherever I wanted, and people were and still are inspired by my writing and share it. But things were not happening at the level I expected.
Since those early freelancing days, I have learned a lot about what it takes to work for myself. Any freelancer will tell you, you have to put just as much time (maybe more) into promoting your craft/services. In addition, I quickly learned that when starting something new, it takes time for it to grow. It also takes time to make a certain amount of money to live a particular lifestyle.
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Tuesday, April 7, 2015
Maybe it was a grandparent, or a teacher, or a colleague. Someone older, patient and wise, who understood you when you were young and searching, helped you see the world as a more profound place, gave you sound advice to help you make your way through it.
For Mitch Albom, that person was Morrie Schwartz, his college professor from nearly twenty years ago.
Maybe, like Mitch, you lost track of this mentor as you made your way, and the insights faded, and the world seemed colder. Wouldn't you like to see that person again, ask the bigger questions that still haunt you, receive wisdom for your busy life today the way you once did when you were younger?
Mitch Albom had that second chance. He rediscovered Morrie in the last months of the older man's life. Knowing he was dying, Morrie visited with Mitch in his study every Tuesday, just as they used to back in college. Their rekindled relationship turned into one final "class": lessons in how to live.
Tuesdays with Morrie is a magical chronicle of their time together, through which Mitch shares Morrie's lasting gift with the world. Now the best-selling memoir of all time,Tuesdays with Morrie began as a modest labor of love to help pay some of Schwartz’s medical bills. Today, the book has sold more than 15 million copies in more than 50 editions around the world. -Mitch Albom
Thursday, April 2, 2015
The Podcast app on my phone is probably the one that gets the most use and gives me the most pleasure. With literally hundreds to choose from (Apple) and new one's starting every day, there
are Podcasts to peek everyone's interest. And with many of them producing weekly content
that run for over an hour, I stay thoroughly entertained.
And shout out to Loud Speakers Network, they have a bunch of
Podcasts that I love.
Tuesday, March 31, 2015
We've all heard it before: "Comparison is the thief of joy." But even though we constantly hear it, we still do it. If even for a slight second, we all have those moments when we think we should be doing what the next person in our field is doing. Or maybe we feel slighted because a certain piece we wrote wasn't published, while the next person's was. Or their art was purchased, while we have yet to make one sale.
I've been struggling with comparison a lot lately. Still unaware of exactly where I plan on going with this writing thing, this blog is the only thing that is constant and for sure. Day in and day out I think about stopping my freelance writing because I don't want to write about the subject matter that publications pay for. I think about stopping my editing and proofreading services, just because sometimes I feel it’s pointless. And a lot of the time, I feel like scrapping all of it so I can focus on writing and completing my book. To then end up letting days go by without working on it because I feel my story is useless.